tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post2773024254074492578..comments2024-02-06T04:06:10.089-06:00Comments on Dear Stevie...: FirstKristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05292279414919447049noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-13665036775050050402012-01-30T20:28:15.285-06:002012-01-30T20:28:15.285-06:00She will always be remembered, for she was very, v...She will always be remembered, for she was very, very loved.Christahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10352614673678794970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-2919777009327926422012-01-28T23:26:57.400-06:002012-01-28T23:26:57.400-06:00Thinking of you & Stevie always.
{{Hugs}}Thinking of you & Stevie always. <br />{{Hugs}}Carolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14698815527301107339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-35172678372567040162012-01-28T14:26:41.190-06:002012-01-28T14:26:41.190-06:00I've been following your blog for a long time,...I've been following your blog for a long time, and I want you to know that even though we've never met or even spoken, I think of Stevie often. Although I didn't know you before she came along, I feel like I can just sense how much she changed you. You are very mature for your age. Wise beyond your years. An old soul. You probably always have been, but carrying Stevie, I think, exaggerated these traits about you, in a good way. Your website (FOL, FOH) and all the wonderful things you've done for baby loss mamas wouldn't have been possible without beautiful little Stevie. And you probably wouldn't appreciate this pregnancy half as much if Elliot didn't have a big sister in heaven watching down on him. I have girlfriends who have had losses, though not as far along as yours was, and they prefer to sweep them under the rug and "not think about them". I think I would be just like you. This child was your flesh and blood, your world. She damn well deserves to be remembered, and even if well meaning family and friends (who understandably, don't know exactly what to say/feel) don't - just know that there are those of us out here that do. Stevie touched me and I never even came within a mile of her. Thank you for that. I can't wait until you have little Elliot in your arms. Thank you so much for being so open and sharing so much of both your journeys like you have. Muah. <3Kelly Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10162645900534955957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-45976650660394627012012-01-28T14:25:23.333-06:002012-01-28T14:25:23.333-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.Kelly Jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10162645900534955957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-80081453020396728012012-01-27T23:40:53.290-06:002012-01-27T23:40:53.290-06:00Stevie will always be in my heart <3Stevie will always be in my heart <3Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15550346625004276669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-89437685113528356472012-01-27T17:06:47.433-06:002012-01-27T17:06:47.433-06:00It can be tough to answer the questions. But Stevi...It can be tough to answer the questions. But Stevie will always be the first no matter what. <3Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-88335134560221975912012-01-27T14:28:07.052-06:002012-01-27T14:28:07.052-06:00Lil Stevie is here. I as well as many others have ...Lil Stevie is here. I as well as many others have not forgotten her nor will we.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15933303830816194386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-13421489196245321022012-01-27T13:12:46.067-06:002012-01-27T13:12:46.067-06:00Right there with ya...Head high, Kristin. Stevie k...Right there with ya...Head high, Kristin. Stevie knows you love, miss and cherish her.Briehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17808884896862082312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-90131115294252237292012-01-27T12:07:56.266-06:002012-01-27T12:07:56.266-06:00I struggle too when people say, "Yay, you fin...I struggle too when people say, "Yay, you finally had a girl!" as if she is my first after having had 2 boys.<br /><br />If only I could tell the truth without making others uncomfortable.<br /><br />*sigh*<br /><br />x <3 oJaimehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07232117298571410184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-37867343266819617692012-01-27T11:39:58.232-06:002012-01-27T11:39:58.232-06:00Thinking of Stevie today and always. <3 She wil...Thinking of Stevie today and always. <3 She will never be forgotten.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06052206494173468746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719166953467554528.post-64508471196817112272012-01-27T11:36:37.385-06:002012-01-27T11:36:37.385-06:00I am a new-ish follower but think this my first co...I am a new-ish follower but think this my first comment. I too deal with these same comments. I know people dont mean it, but you're right, it is different when us, as the moms who ache for our first baby girls all the time hear their words. It hurts. And for us, it hasnt gotten easier. Now, whenever anyone ask's "when are you going to have #2" or "when is Kallen going to have a sister or bother", I just ache. Kallen is our 2nd, and she has a sister. In heaven.<br /><br />Praying for you, for Elliot and for the 'well intentioned' family & friends.Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03544848163105910672noreply@blogger.com